A must read for anyone who has lost a child or knows someone who has.

http://www.theblaze.com/contributions/why-megachurch-pastor-joel-osteen-owes-an-apology/

I think this is why so many have a hard time with religion after a trial, trauma, loss as this. I have spent almost 7 years explaining this concept. God, Christ and Heaven do not take away the pain, longing and grief of losing a child, not once but twice,so quit preaching this nonsense.